No way I way I can grasp this!

No way I can grasp this!!!

Tell me one thing please: how come that there are beautiful, intelligent, sensitive female creatures who always fall for the first guy that’s being kind to them or at least shows the slightest sign of interest?

It’s shitty enough to be stuck in a bad relationship because of children or the house (or even because of the inability to move on) – but when you do not yet have any of those bonds and are clearly not in love, then what the hell is the use of such short-term suffer? And what’s the use of silly puppy-crushes on guys you do not otherwise have anything to do with? Either put up with a one-night stand if attracted, or forget the whole thing.

I’m so different… these things are so far from me.

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And then she calls me for the 500th time, crying that hero number 3 did not call her, nor did he bother to reply her sms. Conversation:

“Tell me, do you love this guy?”

“Dunno… I think I do…”

“But you only met him once!”

“Shall I write him a letter?”

“Fuck, no! You will forget this guy next week when the new victim comes, but the memory of your humiliation will be stuck in your memory forever! If he wants something, he will call you anyway and THEN you decide if you want anything at all”

“Then what shall I do now?”

“Be more patient and don’t obsess over everyone who says a kind word to you!”

Of course she is hurt now and won’t pick up the phone. Well, I’m really sorry if I was being insensitive, but I cannot understand how the fuck you can date another guy every fucking day (love.hu, lovebox.hu) and fall for nearly all of them, and even worry about the ones you clearly cannot imagine a common future with??? And we are talking about a grown-up, 26 year-old woman and not some 13 year-old kiddo!

Please girls, have some pride and self-respect, for heaven’s sake.

No way you can get THIS desperate to be in a relationship.

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Her list:

3 sms’ (“just in case he didn’t get it”)

1 message on iwiw

4 (!!!) phonecalls, one of which she spoke with his mother.